The idea of starting all over again for any woman scorned isn’t fun, but when that woman is a single mom with a young child, it’s just ridiculous. You can easily fall into a funk (see rainbow ref above) and oh boy, did I. Like, I want my skinny leopard print belt from Anne Taylor back. I have a job as a writer, blogger, stylist; um, wonder woman. Instead of thinking about my ex I sat on the couch and my son read to me.
Not everyone is so enthusiastic about one parent dating again after the other parent has died, however.
When you are ready to date, I recommend taking your time to introduce him or her to your kids.
From the beginning, be honest with your kids; let them know you are going to start dating, or that you are dating someone you like. It’s okay to respond to a negative response with, “I am sorry you feel that way.
Because of this, I recommend to be careful not to start dating, or get involved in a serious relationship too soon.
As is often true in life, if you are not at a good place emotionally, the persons drawn to you will be in at that same place.
Once you’re done talking, set a good example in your relationship with your significant other.
Once your child starts dating, don’t stop talking to them about relationships.
“My mother started seeing a new man just eight months after my dad died,” Kate told me.
“Doesn’t it take a full year to work through grief?
Most of their information comes from media that’s meant to be entertaining, not realistic.
Make sure your child understands what it means to be in a loving and supporting relationship.