As neediness is one of the biggest relationships killers, this is a HUGE plus.The fastest way to kill any potential relationship is to take all the tension out of it.Seeing the other side of the coin showed me that letting the girls you’re dating see other guys was not only OK, but actually had a lot of benefits.
I was dating a guy who was also dating another girl, which I knew about. The other girl he had dated for a few months and they broke up but remained friends.
This means you go out, flirt and play, make out, muck around, and not even think twice about getting in trouble. If she’s seeing other guys, it means she’ll be far less needy and demanding.
You’ll have more freedom to do what you want, when you want, and be able to see her when you want to, rather than when she calls. If you’re also seeing other people, it won’t matter if she can’t see you because you’ll have other things to occupy your time with.
Partly because I was terrified of losing her, but also because I wanted to see just how it would play out.
I’d spent all my time up until that point in exclusive, monogamous relationships and thought that was the way to go.
He said I am the finest woman that has come into his life and I will always be special for that.
I came into his life at a very trying time and I lifted his spirits, put him in a better place and kept him on track. He was looking for something negative that would help him to make his decision but he couldn't find anything.
After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. What the cat said..more realistically...yeah, I think guys are more clueless about these things (in general).
Most women have that instinct they can tell if their man has another woman in their life. If you know your woman very well then any slight change in her behavior should raise an eyebrow. Might also be an ego thing going on plus A LOT more women tend to get cheated on it seems so I think they have heard the stories from their girlfriends and when the symptoms start to show up they might have an "ah ha! i agree that men don't see it as clearly as women do.
“I don’t want this to be exclusive…” was the last thing I wanted to hear. “It’s not that there’s anything wrong with you, it’s just that I don’t want to get into a relationship.” Sure, that made all the difference. I’d never been in that situation before and it was going to be interesting.
She was beautiful, intelligent, funny, cool, and a sexual dynamo. Despite what my original misgivings, it turned out to be a smart decision.