Some women may be inquisitive by nature and may adopt a confrontational style on the first date itself.Men are advised to adopt humor to deflect such questions and women are asked to steer clear of such questions if they don’t want to see their first dates bolting at the slightest chance.Going for a first date can be pretty intimidating for most people.Your mind may be overcome with fears and insecurities.Believe it or not, but silent doubts and hidden questions exist in each and every romantic relationship.Regardless of whether it happens to be a couple dating each other for a week, or a man and a woman who have been happily married for a decade, there always exist a bunch of questions which guys secretly feel like asking their gals, and vice-versa.
Find out whether this man wants something serious and believes in a romantically charged equal partnership that leads towards marriage, or if he thinks the woman should do all the work as he sits back and cheats.
I've been people-shopping recently, or what some folks call Online Dating, and I've managed to meet some really interesting people.
After the initial introductory emails, when communication gets a little more relaxed, I tend to end messages with a list of questions (and then I judge their responses).
I'm, frankly speaking, an amazing cook, and I want to know what's she's bringing to the table (also helps me weed out the vegetarians, without having to ask; I'm fine with vegetarians, but it's like a religion, I prefer to know early). If she says "the water" she may be into surfing or kayaking or a similar sexy sport.
If she says "my vacation house in Bali" I know she's probably got money and spends time on exotic islands.
Consider doing the same: Allows me to figure out, if we ever dated to the point of sleepovers, whether she'd want to get up and go jogging at 9 A. I could write an answer to this question that would last pages and pages.
M., or whether we could roll around in bed, maybe watch a movie and waste half the day (guess which one I prefer). I want to hear how important food is to her, and how creative her tastes are. This question is less of a test than pure curiosity at work.
This is another make it or break it for most woman, so knowing the answer to this question right away is imperative.5. No woman wants to be with an unemployed man with no potential, so knowing his current employment status is important. This is the perfect question to really see if the two of you are a match. He loves fast cars, and you enjoy slow bike rides- maybe not so much of a match.10. If he’s got 13 dogs and you can’t stand dogs, then the two of you might not work out. You might find out that this man has a soft spot for animals and wants to save the dolphins, or maybe he’s an avid pianist and enjoys classical music profoundly.22. This question will let you know just how confident he is.23. Again, we all have something we wish we could change. This question just might lead the two of you to making plans for a dinner date! This really is an icebreaking question as it lets you know a little more about him without asking anything too serious.29. This is another great question that always comes with a string of interesting answers. If you were given three wishes, what would you wish for? This question is incredibly fun and will definitely have a great answer.31. Speed dating doesn’t have to be all serious questions. A man who can do DIY projects (and actually enjoys them) is an automatic winner for any woman. Ok, so be careful not to ask this question too soon. I think we can all agree that a man who can speak more than one language is just sexy, so this is definitely something you will want to know right off the bat.39.
Who knows, he could be the manager of your favorite restaurant or a high-end lawyer.6. Don’t be too quick to judge if he’s unemployed without first asking this question. However if you’re both avid pet lovers and he’s got a couple, this might be a match made in heaven.11. Perhaps he’s the adventurous type that loves to travel, or maybe he’s a homebody who would rather stay inside and treat you to a homemade dinner and candlelit massages.12. If you’re tired of asking question and he seems a little shy, ask this question to see what questions might be hiding in the depths of his mind.13. You can really find out about his personality here, if he loves comedies he might be a funny guy always cracking jokes while the guy who loves action movies might be a bit more dramatic and serious.14. Is his answer something simple, like the size of his nose, or does his answer go deeper to a more personal level? Hopefully the man sitting across from you comes up with a more thrilling answer than a car and a house. Hey, he might surprise you and tell you he would buy his momma a house. Ask him this silly question and give yourself a laugh to lighten up the mood.32. Another great question to lighten up the awkward tension and get the two of you laughing together. (Just be careful not to let the drink come out of your nose! Plus there’s nothing like watching a man put something together with his own hands- such a turn on! You don’t want to come off as a woman digging for gold, trying to find out whether or not this guy is rich and worth your time.
Believe me, there is no third option or possibility.
Not being able to understand certain things about women inevitably gives birth to quite a few questions in a man's mind.