Inexplicably in my short time here I have been on more dates than I ever have been in my 20 years of living in New York. These are Germans, after all, and we did steal the word Schadenfreude from them.Maybe it's something in the water, but it seems to me that I attract German men quite easily. If you follow the subsequent list of do's and don'ts you should be able to win the heart of a H. and find yourself in a very happy, committed, and health relationship.If you are an American woman who has set her sights on a German man then there are a few things you will need to know.Keep in mind that everyone is an individual and there is no sure fire way to know how each will react to different circumstances.(This has happened to dozens of friends of mine.) He Will Be On Time – Germans are sticklers for being on time, so if you agree to meet at a restaurant at , he will be there waiting at and not keep you waiting.
Germans have rules for almost everything, but apparently waiting 2 days to call so that he doesn’t appear desperate is not one of them.
And where German and American cultures are concerned, the potential for culturally-based misunderstandings is relatively negligible, so if two people aren’t open-minded enough to try to work through such insignificant differences, the relationship doesn’t stand a snowflake’s chance in hell of surviving anyway.” However for most people whose sweetheart is German, a foreigner, there are plenty of cultural nuances and minor difficulties resulting sometimes in an alienation. Let’s listen again to Lynne, the expert in human relations in general and in relations with a German man in particular.
Being an American, she has unique experience of successful dating and communicating with a German.
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German will probably never be known as “Die Sprache der Liebe,” “The language of love.” German men will likely never flirt with you as an Italian would, or shower you with romance as the French would. It’s like an onion, exposing itself one layer at a time instead of all at once, but no less flavorful.
When he says “I love you,” he most likely means it.
From dodgy snacks to strange date venues, the list to avoid dating Germans can seem convincing.
In reality, the above is a conception based on experience as an outsider.
For Germans there is a way of life and people pretty much know what to expect.
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