It started a few months ago and our daughter asked my husband (h) and her father to sleep in her bed with her. I admit it was me that chose to marry eventhough my family warned me about her yet I insisted. for more, as this life I've become entrapped in feels cold and desolate, so very lonely to me. I would have stayed single 4 life and only had friends.
Here I am lying in bed writing this and another night by myself. He's asleep in a single bed with our 9 year old daughter. I've got such a horrible selfish wife you wouldn't believe she has turned every second of my life into a bitter experience and nobody is to blame but myself.
If he doesn't want sex ANYMORE he should talk to me about it and be honest! that something wasn't quite right, your intuition tingling, trying to tell you something that you couldn't quite hear. This morning I made two attempts at a quickie while the kids were adequately occupied. We hade fun togheter and we did everything together. Her sister didn't invited us to her wedding, and her family took the sister side. Is it even possible once we've drifted so far apart? So when he proposed, I said yes, even though I knew I wasn't ready.
Over the past 15 years of marriage, but particularly the last 10, I've felt... Last weekend I cooked a special dinner...candles...trying to rekindle what we once had. I told him I had prepared a special dinner for him. It's been 19 years, but it's been bad for so long, I don't even know what a healthy relationship is anymore. I hate answering by saying "I'm fine" when really I'm not! Impossible so *any* opportunity the presents itself is jumped on (pun intended). I mean absolutely none left but managed to rekindle the fire with them? Has anyone done that successfully with their spouse? Maybe it's those things that I miss the most and am seeking out. I was an insecure, scared child at the time, and all I knew was that I loved this fun-loving guy and I was comfortable and safe with him.
We can only allow you to see a few samples of our lonely housewives.
We are bound by our agreement with most of the ladies to not show their faces outside the protected adult chat section.
He gets upset if I ask him about it...we're in freakin counseling and he... I didn't know there were so many other people in the world who are in the same situation, so reading others' stories is reassuring in that I realise I'm not alone in my aloneness. My mind and ego tell me to work it out, it's what I'm supposed to do, it's the sensible thing to do. Someone who knows when I need some attention, when I need to offload & talk about my day. We have fallen into a rut and the excitement of the early days have faded and the connection we shared seems to have disappeared.
I have a camera and love to meet new people online.It turned out that he was hanging out with friends at a bar across the street.Feeling safe, with my friends all around, I texted back, asking him to come over and I'd buy him a drink.Now in this modern world we are bombarded with so much information on lives, cultures... He is a liar, addicted to **** who doesn't want to have sex with me. You shouldn't have to force someone to make a space in their life for you, because if they... Sometimes we do petting but I feel like I married a teenager. During this time, I totally devoted my life to being a loyal wife and a good mother. As I sit here having a one sided conversation with my husband, I'm getting very little response in return. Looking for Love and Sex Online is Old News For the better part of the past two decades online bulletin boards like Craigslist, dating websites such as e Harmony and Match.com, and endless pay-for-play sexual hookup websites have provided the single, lonely, horny, cheating, or simply bored man or woman with the fastest and most direct route to meet, date, romance, and/or simply have sex. As modern life has shifted away from the home or office-based computers and become all about the smartphone, we now have apps that allow us to literally "hook-up" on the go.Smartphone "friend finder" apps like Ashley Madison (for marrieds and partnered individuals seeking "out of the roost" sex), Skout and Blendr (for single straight men and women), Grindr (to find male-male partners) or Pink Cupid (to find lesbians and bisexual partners) -- among many others -- are actually friend finders . households now own at least one smartphone, it seems reasonable to assume that increasing numbers of people are eagerly following this app-created breadcrumb trail to sex with strangers wherever and whenever time and circumstances allow.More accurately, these more accurately named, "sex-finder" apps are designed to help you geo-locate an immediately available, readily accessible romantic or sexual partner much in the same way that Yelp or Citysearch will direct you to a nearby four star sushi bar or Italian deli with a good smartphone and the flick of your index finger. Once downloaded and opened, sex finder apps bring up an instant photo grid of potentially available sex partners, presorted by location, gender, age and/or sexual preference -- all on your smartphone screen.In crowded urban areas these apps often locate multiple people within a mere few hundred feet!“There’s also another interesting problem,” he adds.“And that’s if you go putting this measure out there in a magazine and you tell people, ‘If you get a score of 60, then you’re really lonely,’ I don’t know how that may go over with somebody filling it out who is sitting there in their house all alone and socially isolated.” According to Russell, a 2005 phone survey of Iowans used a short, 10-item version of the UCLA Loneliness Scale. “Another explanation may simply be that loneliness is increasing over time.” Russell provided evidence of his second theory, reporting that in the Iowa Family Survey, the average level of loneliness among those over 65 years of age was 37.22, whereas the average level of loneliness in the 1986 study he and Cutrona conducted in Iowa’s Linn County was 31.51.